Well it is nineteen days
Well it is nineteen days until the wedding. We are doing well on wedding plans. K is down in Houston with her family. I will fly down on Thursday to spend Christmas with the family there. We have a list of things that need to be finished this week and while we are in Houston. I feel good about where we are with stuff.
I have these thoughts:
- We have a growing list of people we need to thank; I need to work to make sure I can thank them all.
- Things are going to go wrong; I know that, the one thing that matters is that K and I are married.
- If I had one thing I could change, I would have everyone I have ever known at the wedding. Any list of people in your life that you love is incomplete.
- I have always wanted strong family ties. It is one of my failing that I have not been willing to pay the cost of having them.
- For those of you, who will be there, I wish to say ‘thank you.’ Weddings are about people standing up and say we approve of these two being married.
- Getting married is $75 and a couple of signatures. It is all of you that make it a Wedding.
- There are people in our lives that do not have this right. They are our friends and loved ones. They want loving life long partnerships. It is the same goal I have. Do you want to be called a ‘Domestic Partner?’
P.S. I am sorry for the lack of updates. Jeff’s death hit me hard here. Every time I went back to post, I lost the heart for it.